Blog Tour Review + Giveaway: Dear Teen Me

I received this book for free from Publisher in exchange for an honest review. This does not affect my opinion of the book or the content of my review.

Blog Tour Review + Giveaway: Dear Teen MeDear Teen Me: Authors Write Letters to Their Teen Selves by E. Kristin Anderson, Miranda Kenneally
Published by Zest Books on October 30, 2012
Genres: Anthologies, Nonfiction
Pages: 192
Format: ARC
Source: Publisher

Dear Teen Me includes advice from 70 YA authors (including Lauren Oliver, Ellen Hopkins, and Nancy Holder, to name a few) to their teenage selves. The letters cover a wide range of topics, including physical abuse, body issues, bullying, friendship, love, and enough insecurities to fill an auditorium. So pick a page, and find out which of your favorite authors had a really bad first kiss? Who found true love at 18? Who wishes he’d had more fun in high school instead of studying so hard? Some authors write diary entries, some write letters, and a few graphic novelists turn their stories into visual art. And whether you hang out with the theater kids, the band geeks, the bad boys, the loners, the class presidents, the delinquents, the jocks, or the nerds, you’ll find friends--and a lot of familiar faces--in the course of Dear Teen Me.

First Sentence: “This book is for you.”

Dear Teen Christina,

Life sucks right now, and, I’m not going to lie to you. High school is awful, but at least middle school is over, and, so far, that exists as the nadir of your life, and I hope that does not change (it hasn’t yet). Also, in junior year, you’ll make a friend, a real one, the kind of friend you’ll still talk to when you’re unspeakably old (aka 25). Also, teen self, you should know that your fantasies of showing up at your ten year reunion incredibly hot and successful and falling in instalove with [insert one of the innumerable boys you crush on during high school] will not be coming true. Also, instalove is awful. Even in your daydreams, I expect better quality material, okay? Just know, young self, that it will get better.

There’s a lot more that I could tell my teen self, because there’s a lot that I’ve learned, even just to the extent of realizing how much I don’t know. None of these authors had quite the same experience that I did, but a comment here and an embarrassing moment there spoke to me, just as others would to anyone who picks it up.

Robin Benway wrote one of my favorite letters in the anthology. Her second point begins, “High school stops mattering the second you graduate from it.” This is both the truest and least accurate statement in here, I feel, and sort of sums everything up. All of these stories are people coming to terms with their middle school, high school or college experiences. In some stories, you can still feel the vitriol or the sadness, emotions still very close to the surface. These moments have a profound impact on your formation as a person. However, once I graduated from high school, I hardly looked back, and I barely remember a lot of it. The late nights frantically trying to produce a two-week science experiment in three days (you won’t get a good grade on that one, self, but you weren’t going to anyway) really just won’t matter. And, if you don’t want to, you won’t ever have to see those people again.

At Decatur Book Festival, the moderator of a panel I attended made an observation that no authors of young adult fiction were popular in high school. Well, Dear Teen Me shows that this is not true. In fact, I’d say there’s a pretty decent representation of different social cliques in here, although, unsurprisingly, the nerds do predominate. There are some cheerleaders, though, and at least one jock. I liked that, and getting a window into other people’s high school experiences has a cathartic feeling to it, because no one had it easy. Growing up hurts.

Dear Teen Me is a brief volume, composed of short snippets, generally two to four pages long. About half of the authors go for silly self-mockery, giving an entertaining account of their teen awkwardness and playing for laughs. Most of the rest focus on a specific issue that will haunt their years, something dark and painful: eating disorders, self-harm, rape, abuse, grief over the loss of a loved one. The honesty of these stories and the bravery of the authors for putting that out there is incredible. A couple stories, sadly, didn’t really say anything at all. These I did not approve of.

I whipped through Dear Teen Me in a single evening. For teenagers struggling with feeling at home in their own skin (aka all teenagers) or for those of us who still have some things from our teen years we need to get over, Dear Teen Me is a powerful read to help us feel just a little bit less alone. Also, you can see what all of the authors looked like in high school (in fact, Sean Beaudoin’s letter will be all about his emo, artsy pho<tograph), which I love.

I’m going to be passing on my ARC to be enjoyed by someone else. Open to those who live in the US or Canada. Just fill out THIS FORM to enter. Comments are appreciated as well. 

8 responses to “Blog Tour Review + Giveaway: Dear Teen Me”

  1. Kayla Beck says:

    I’m so glad that they made the blog into a book! I don’t know why, but I’ve been reading it for a while. I guess I like reading about other people’s awful experiences in their teen years.

    Also, your letter is awesome. You should write a full one! (I can promise you that I probably never will.) 😀

  2. Heather says:

    Ooh, this book sounds great, and I will definitely be reading it! High school really was tough for everyone, even if it didn’t seem like it, as we were all really were just trying to find our place.

    I think I want to write a letter to my sixteen-year-old self…

  3. I think I would totally love this. I love that line that you posted and feel that, at least in my experience, it is 100% true. Fuck high school. <---I'm not bitter about the whole thing or anything. So cool that it shows all different sides of things as far as social cliques go. Great review Christina! Love your mini letter.

  4. Nori says:

    I just think this such a cool idea for a book! And I actually never thought about whether YA authors were cool in high school or not…Interesting.

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